I met a friend who said she was bored about knowing what food my company gives…. Huh? How was it possible…. She never came to my office. Not even once, and was bored of knowing what company provides… (I could have understood, had she got the taste! ;)
Smartly I asked her; how is it possible? (Making girls feel brilliant about them self is funny thing to see) …. I know everything, Came the reply! …. (and I gave up conversation)
Then she came back to the real point:
Out of work she got in touch with a guy from my office, and this fella was telling her things which she was least interested about…..
How funny are human species? Just give them a touch and they will try to be all over you… and boy… if female is in opposite chair and single then only sky is the limit to the opposite mans thoughts… desires…..
Generally I said, thank your stars… this guy is not telling his whereabouts, if this is the case then be assured something is wrong either at both ends (love) or worst for one!
I was telling her as if I am completely out of - my basic needs, to love and be loved by someone, may be by only one girl who will be special in my one life.
I too thanked my stars for being single, for not having a girl in my life at this moment. who I could “die for” the one person who you can’t stop loving! In long gone – worst past of mine, I realized one thing, sometimes being alone (not lonely though) is fun! Was just enjoying the moment of being alone and as usual my happiness was tormented by artifact – called “relation”
How funny are these human needs at times we just want to be ourself, alone, see the things happening around and feeling happy for not being part of it... just as mere spectator, and suddenly we need someone may be someone really special who will give meaning to our life! This was crazy man….
I told all this to my friend and she said; boy I think (aah how good was it to hear someone calling 29 years old man as boy :) you need to write a book on relations. How can without knowing anything or half the things girls come to final conclusion? “I think” anyway I was not in mood to question her “I think” abilities…. But writing a book on relation?
One can only write book on relation if he/she is master in it, and not just saviors… we all in relations are saviors! The real master is someone who we humans have termed it as God!
Absolutely! said she…. Now where is your “I think” Disappeared? I was about to ask but then was too engrossed in my thoughts which were about to explode!
When I was kid, I was been told; God is superpower he carefully examines our every action; the only way to salvation is to be nice. The prayer are only way to reach to heavens!
Naturally The image of God was the ultimate. The one who creates human!
God created opposite gender
God was responsible for letting know the people pleasure of sex
God kept it simple…..
But then it seems, he was also bored of simplicity, so again he brought insecurities in humans… lust in peoples mind… infidelity, craving for something unusual. This was another side of gift given to humans…..
There were unsatisfied faces around, so people entered in extra marital affairs. The unhappy souls needed some adventure so people decided to enter into outside relation. Dissatisfied went to prostitutes, not for sex, but they could lick each other toes and fingers which otherwise was not possible… The otherwise socially accepted, well behaved men and women found prostitutes as way of means for satisfying their fantasies. The insecured cheated on partners. Why did god created such things? Why did he put these stupid ideas in some people?
Some paid heavy price for his / hers partner fatal error of life. Some committed suicide, some became permanent residents of asylum. Some could never get back to normalcy. All mayhem!
Every tide brings rise and fall, but with such people around - only tears came out as winner for those who suffered; and forever guilt for those who were responsible!
Phew ....
so much taxing but yet so true…. It was unending yet one thing which left eternal was our believe in god!
There were days when we stood in front of his statue and prayed cause someone told us to do. Even god had his share in our early days of life –after the exams before the results! God stayed with us in youth too when every prayer offered to him was for the lovely girl we loved beyond everything… Things changed and so the needs but prayers were here to stay!!
Hoping against hope was nothing but a prayer!
Yet we all did and keep doing same thing day in day out! Praying and Praying….
Let us do a different prayer this time
God let you alone be master of relations, but not make any one a destroyer. Let all humans be Saviors!
- Amen!
